You can't seem to understand why she would say those things about you, after all, you did nothing to her...so where is this coming from?
Alot of women, jumpy to envy.....which is understandable since you can't see any other logical explanation. However, many fail to realise that they may have indeed been the source of this malice....maybe it's something you did or said [you may have not noticed] or perhaps she's just being cold and heartless.
Somtimes it's just time to let go.....accept that
Oh yea!!.....stop the bashing!! If the friendship is over and you don't wanna be friends with her anymore....
Stop the propaganda.........stop gossipping about her and worst of all, stop sugar coating it in favour of your character.
Keep in mind that you guys were once friends and just because she's doing it doesn't mean that you have to.....be the bigger person. Forgive and respect each other's space.
The friend is the man who knows all about you and still likes you. Hubbard
Men kick friendship around like a football but it doesn't seem to crack. Women treat it like glass and it shatters into pieces. Lindbergh
Friendship is one mind in 2 bodies. Mencius
I dont need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better. Plutarch
This week i'm celebrating one of my best friends.....Grace Joseph.....Happy Birthday Sweetie!!
9 comments:
but hun i nod wen u nod...run wen u run...am like a shadow on u...
so does dat mean am not da kinda friend u want??
lol lol i so agree with you people dont realize that there are time u jus need to let go and be the bigger person and not because you and the other person are no longer friends you have to start saying bad things about them after all the past is the past..some times u jus hav to grow up and realize that the person was once your friend and jus let go..stop being a hypocrite to yourself and stop pretending to be what you not because sooner or later people begin to see the real you..so i think you should get your own life and stop living off someone else's..useless ppl..lol..
I for one second Kayla's comment. Clearly, if the person's absense in your life does not affect you, then why bother? If the person was really your friend, then you all would be over the phase long ago. This is how you know your real friends from those who were probably there for some unknown benefit. If the person stabs you in the back then say to them..."If seeing me fall makes ur day brighter then, I'M HAPPY TO HELP! LOVE TO SEE YOU SMILING BABY!!!"
I'll always want a friend like you kid. One to nod when I nod and to run when I run but also to stop nodding when am wrong and to stop me from running when I need to face what am running from.....so u can't always be my shadow :P
Haha.....u guys are killing me lmao. I totally agree with u kayla and Jono I can't stop laughing..lol lol. Sometimes though it's usually jus low self esteem that makes ppl behave that way..or they just haven't tapped into some other talent ..But on a serious note, I really believe that women should stop this immature behaviour and behave like guys( well just in this case lol...don't wanna go brain dead forever...kidding fellas lol lol)
Tiffany you're on blogger!
well you are very right actually. I couldn't agree with you more. I've been trying to understand why some people are that way. They just can't give things a rest. *sigh*
i think that hardest part bout genuine friendship going sour is that it is hurtful.. and get rid of some of that hurt you start bashing the person.. it relieves some hurt temporarily but then you realise that you lose yourself...well thats if you have a heart.. and since the friendship was a genuine one you u hurt the person even more... just making the situation even worst. yup its hard to let go.. sometimes but at the end of the day doing the right thing is always the right thing to do... and i learnt that even if you are not in a friendship with people who you thought that you would always be in its always best to wish the best for everybody..say sorry a genuine one.. dont judge..people really do change...and karma is a reallllllllll BITCHHH!!!
Each individuals acts differently and so it might cause problems as one may not always be pleased with anothers actions....but does this give one a right to back talk or insult each other.....women are mainly the ones suffering from these problems --->friendships going baddd ....bacause they take each little problem and create a huge one which may end up out of control....what they should bear in mind is that EVERY FRIENDSHIP COMES WITH PROBLEMS BUT ITS ONLY THE TRUE ONES THAT LOOK BEYOND THESE PROBLEMS AND ALSO OVERCOME THEM....
haha teffo..lol lol now u makin me lmao..hehe i think that a true friend is not judgemental.. and teffo if girls started to behav lik guys oh my wat a world we'd hav lol lol..mwen mem any ways..one who looks for a friend with no faults has none(hasidic)cuz at the end of the day a true friend is someone who'd be there for u no matter what even when they'd rather be somewhere else..cuz quote.."a true friend is someone who'd walk into ur life when the rest of the world has walk out"..yah ..n jonelle i lik dat nice..lol..
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